This is a tough question for me, as I tend to like everything, and my tastes tend to go far deeper into the pool than most. (Gimme a fried cricket over a potato chip, all day long! 😉 )
Also, I am by nature predisposed to dislike “contempt prior to investigation” and, as I teach the kids, I prefer to categorize foods by “things I haven’t had prepared in a way I like…YET”, as opposed to label things “I don’t like.”
In other words, I may “eat with my eyes first”, but I refuse to pass judgement until my tastebuds have weighed in!
As far as things that most people seem to like, that I haven’t discovered a love for (yet), I guess I’d have to go with any fresh fruit combined with chocolate.
I’ve tried many, many versions, and, while I’ll eat my weight in white chocolate covered pretzels, I just can’t seem to get a taste for berries, bananas, or any other fruit dipped in chocolate (but, by all means, feel free to try to change my mind!)
How about you, what do YOU say no to, when everyone else seems to be scarfing it down?
I’m writing this letter to the young man who stutters, or has an acne problem, or is just smaller than everyone else. To the young lady who never seems to know what to say, or may be carrying a few extra pounds, or who’s skin is a different color than everyone else in class.
You may not believe it, but once upon a time, I was the littlest kid in class. An only child with a sick mom, a sever speech impediment, coke-bottle glasses, and a thrift-store wardrobe…in other words, I was an easy target.
You know what I’m talking about.
Bullies made my life a nightmare from the 3rd grade, through most of high-school. With no real friends or defenders, it was a frightening, lonely way to grow up, and I still carry some of those scars, on my skin and on my heart, forty years later, and I always will.
So will you.
Bullies suck, and so does being bullied.
You don’t deserve it, you didn’t ask for it, and it’s not happening because there’s anything wrong with YOU. You are amazing. You are beautiful, and there is not another living soul on earth who is like you. That makes you a treasure beyond price.
Maybe your parents don’t understand, maybe your teachers and coaches were never bullied, and can’t relate, but you’re not alone.
You are SO not alone.
Your bullies are weak, and scared, and small. So small on the inside that the only thing that makes them feel good about themselves is to make someone else feel bad.
How sad is that?
But, you know what? There’s a gift in being bullied.
That can be hard to accept, believe me, I know.
But it’s true.
It can make you strong. It can make you brave. But most importantly, it can make you…kind.
And it’s not easy (but you’re used to things not being easy, aren’t you?)
You see, when you know what it feels like, the fear, the confusion, the betrayal, the pain…you can choose to let it make you bitter, to make you as small inside as the ones who hurt you, OR you can use it to guide how you treat others, how you speak to others in pain, how you protect and defend those weaker than you. How to choose compassion and mercy, over hate.
How you be exactly the kind of hero that you lay awake longing for.
Hate is easy, any small-minded weakling can hate. But love…love and kindness are the strongest powers in the universe, and when you have that strength, you cannot be beaten.
And because you know, you have greatness in you.
You are developing a strength that many will never attain, no matter how fast, or smart, or rich, or pretty. A strength of heart, and of mind.
You will be able to see things others don’t, do things other’s can’t.
And the world needs you…desperately. They need you more and more every day, because it’s people like you…like US…that have the power to make the world a better place…because we know.
So, this post is a little off-topic, but I’ll try to make it as relevant as I can.
Just got an iPad mini for my daughter and, after loading the Amazon Video app, discovered there is no way to organize purchased movies by category (mine vs. hers) or even by descriptive folders.
This is crazy!
I have a LOT of movies, many of them are PG-13 or R Rated, and I don’t want her scrolling through those, just to find the ones I buy for her! (and I buy her a LOT of movies, because she has me wrapped around her little finger…)
Since foodie-friendly movies often have scenes that “sizzle” (and I don’t mean on the grill), as well as include the native language of the kitchen, this is unacceptable to me.
The last thing I want my daughter shouting in the middle of the grocery store is, “IT WAS f****** MOLTEN!” 😉
Nor do I want her mother to beat me to death with a bag of frozen peas.
I read a thread on the Amazon Forum, which started on Aug 23, 2015, titled, “organizing video library” where dozens of paying customers have asked for this feature, and yet after almost 2 years there has not been a single response from Amazon!
This irked me…and I don’t like to be irked. Being a chef, you can probably guess that I don’t do “irked” well.
Now, I love Amazon, and it’s my #1 movie and TV show source of choice (I’m a long-time Prime member), but I know how business works. Profit = priority, lol, so in that light, I sent a message to the Bezoites, letting them know that I am (much to my disappointment) boycotting movie and television purchases from Amazon until this issue has been addressed, nor will I re-up my Prime Membership.
Drastic times call for drastic measure, and all that.
The point of all this personal angst, here on my ChefPerry page, is that I will be posting the link to this message on various related boards in hopes that other will send Amazon the same message (below) from their own accounts, and share it with others.
That’s right…I’m starting a “movement”…protests and rioting coming soon!
I feel so Micheal Moore! (but I’m hoping the nausea will pass before dinnertime…)
Anyhoo…here’s the text of my message to Amazon.com, along with screen shots to help folks post it.
(Note: this text has been edited to fit the word-count limits in Amazon’s message feature. If you add anything, it might not fit. Definitely feel free to personalize it, tho!)
Amazon.com: Help a parent out!
Just got an iPad for my daughter and, after loading the Amazon Video app, discovered there is no way to organize purchased movies by category (Mine vs. hers) or by folder. This is crazy! I have a LOT of movies, many of them are PG-13 or R Rated, and I don’t want her scrolling through those, just to find the ones I buy for her.
I read a thread on the Amazon Forum, which started on Aug 23, 2015, titled, “organizing video library” where dozens of paying customers have asked for this, and yet after almost 2 years there has not been a single response from Amazon!
I love Amazon, and you’re my #1 movie and TV show of source (I’m a long-time Prime member), but I know how business works. Profit = priority, lol, so in that light, I am (much to my disappointment) boycotting all movie and television purchases from Amazon until this issue has been addressed, nor will I re-up my Prime Membership.
Please don’t make me do that! 😉
HOW TO SEND THIS MESSAGE
Let’s make Amazon Video great again!
(Don’t make me make a whiny movie…)
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Sometimes, when someone gets especially snarky about a vague direction or ingredient amount, or complains about not having enough “step by step” pictures in my recipes, I smile and think about this little book.
This belonged to my dad, Chef Frank Perkins (and he probably got it from HIS dad, who was also a chef.)
He just called it “The Reminder” (copyright 1909) and it was the only “cookbook” he owned. He kept it in his knife roll, and it went everywhere he cooked. He gave it to me when he retired.
As you can see, there are no pictures, no measurements, just brief descriptions of the elements of finished dishes. Got a chicken in the freezer? The book “reminds” you of the various dishes you can make…and assumes that you know how.
I learned to cook many, many dishes out of this little book.
So, if I don’t seem to get my knickers in a twist every time someone gets all uppity about my usage of vague terms like “a pinch”, “a handful”, or “a little bit more”….you might understand, lol.
I received a text from my friend Terry this morning. He needed help with his new to him commercial stand mixer. He is finally starting his baking business. Terry is by far the best baker I have ever known. His bread will make your meal. His cakes are a religious experience. His wife and family have finally given him the push to start what he has been talking about for year.
Terry picked me up on the home from getting the mixer. First we ran over to Hawaiian Time a little Hawaiian restaurant for plate lunch and then next door to the Growler Run one of my favorite beer places. The the Growler Run always has a great selection of beers. Terry likes beer even more than I do and it’s always great to enjoy a pint with him. Today I had a Suicide Squeeze from Fort George. It’s a great…
I think the “like” button is my least favorite feature of Facebook.
I’m ego-maniacal enough to just ASSUME everyone’s going to LIKE my posts…what I WANT is conversation. Why did you like it? What memory or experience did it trigger for you personally? What does it mean in YOUR life, that it may not in mine, and what can you add?
Frankly, a “thumbs up” is a pretty pathetic, lazy form of communication, and communication is why I signed up for FB in the first place.
And, yes, I can certainly how it’s a time-saver, and easier than writing out one’s thought (but seriously, even an “LOL” is less ambiguous than that damn button.
I’d just rather see more people interested in IMPROVING their written communication skills, than just band-aide them with a “Like” button. If I was interested in just getting applause, I’d do theatre again (shudder)… 😉
The ability to express ones self through words, much like cooking, is a passion of mine. And, unfortunately, we’re de-evolving into a fast-food nation in both arenas.
If FACEBOOK requires too much effort, I kinda weep for the future (well, okay, I weep for the future for a lot of reasons, but that’s a whole ‘nuther post…)
JUST to clarify (which YOUR conversations are helping me do, lol) I’m NOT suggesting that every meme, puppy picture, or kitty video, requires a heartfelt, deeply considered response. I’m talking about when someone posts something MEANINGFUL, a joy, a pain, something (hopefully) thought-provoking. I think something that is clearly important to the person posting, and sparks a thought in response, deserves more respect that a “thumbs up.”
On an interesting (for me, anyway) entomological side-note: The “thumbs up” originated as an air-force gesture, meaning “ready to fly” between a pilot and ground crew, before take-off. The reason this was necessary is that neither the pilot nor the crewman directing him could HEAR each other over the noise, so they had to adopt hand gestures when conversation was impossible.
So, I’m going to try only “liking” a post if I’m willing to leave a comment, even just a brief one, as well.
Who’s with me?
PS- If you “like” THIS post, without commenting… you’re a jerk.